Nov. 5, 2025

Beyond worksheets: How letting go can make you a better therapist (with Renae Martelli)

Beyond worksheets: How letting go can make you a better therapist (with Renae Martelli)

Bron and guest Renae Martelli explore how letting go of the tools and strategies we cling to as early-career therapists might actually make us better at our jobs. We unpack what happens when we stop trying to “do” therapy perfectly and instead tune in to the client, the context, and the process.

👉🏽 We cover:

  • Why tools and worksheets can sometimes hold us back

  • The shift from doing therapy to being a therapist

  • How supervision helps refine your therapist lens

  • Letting go of self-criticism and embracing self-compassion in your practice

Expect practical insights, plenty of “I’ve done that too” moments, and an honest conversation about what it really takes to grow as a therapist. Thanks Renae! 😊

Guest: Renae Martelli, Psychologist, supervisor and owner of Think Feel Grow

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Mental Work is the Australian podcast for early-career mental health workers about working in mental health. Hosted by Psychologist/Researcher Dr Bronwyn Milkins.

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CREDITS

Producer: Michael English

Music: Home

Commitment: Mental Work believes in an inclusive and diverse mental health workforce. We honor the strength, resilience, and invaluable contributions of mental health workers with lived experiences of mental illness, disability, neurodivergence, LGBTIQA+ identities, and diverse culture and language. We recognise our First Nations colleagues as Traditional Custodians of the land and pay respect to Elders past, present, and emerging. Mental Work is recorded on unceded Whadjuk Noongar land.

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